Friday, November 13, 2009

How Do You Know: Are Russian Women Good Mothers?

By Mark De Schutter

Are Russian women good mothers any more than American women are good mothers? This presents a very interesting question that has some very interesting answers. Russian women who are presently looking for husbands are usually interested in starting a family one day. However, most Russian brides also want to create a different life for themselves as well. Some want education, others want opportunity, and all want a sense of security.

Most Russian women that are in search of Western men to marry are looking for a full package. They want a good man, a good life, and yes, good children. There are some women, just as there are some men, that are not interested in becoming parents in the near future. This does not necessarily mean that they will not make good parents in a few years.

When you start interviewing Russian brides, make sure you are clear on your feelings about children. She may not see children in the picture until several years down the road. In your excitement to have everything you've ever wanted you may very well be ready for children two weeks after she arrives in your home.

You have been investing a lot of time, energy, and money into finding and bringing home your Russian bride. It is only natural for you to desire everything possible when it comes to creating the home life you want. The more you push and shove, however, the less willing she will become. You can not force a woman to get pregnant. Stress, in fact, can decrease her chances considerably.

In general Russian women make good mothers. Most Russian brides have a past that is somewhat undesirable. They do not want the same lifestyle for any potential children that they may have. Thus, they may very well wish to go slowly toward to goal of having children to make sure that their children come into a financial and emotionally stable environment. This way, you can be assured that the decision is real.

If you are hoping that your Russian wife will want to start having children you need to make sure that you discuss this thoroughly during visits and chat sessions. Having children is nothing to be entered into lightly and it is possible that there will be some disagreements regarding the timing of having children.

Do Russian women make good mothers? Any women can make a good mother when she feels passionately about having her children. When there is too much pressure or coercion going on, she is less likely to make a good mother. This is how women operate. She needs to want to have your children, which means it needs to be her decision.

If you both agree that children will be part of the picture, and you both continuously agree to that basic timeline, chances are you will both be happily raising a family when the suitable adjustments have been made. It is always best to give it at the bare minimum one year before you start trying to bring children into the world. There are many aspects of life that you will both be adjusting to. A Russian woman can make a good mother, but nobody makes a good parent when they are forced, coerced, or intimidated into parenting.

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